Episode 77

March 18, 2026

00:10:18

Ep-77- The Seasons of Us- (Are You Sick and Tired of Being Sick and Tired?)

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Paul Steen
Ep-77- The Seasons of Us- (Are You Sick and Tired of Being Sick and Tired?)
Are You Sick and Tired of Being Sick and Tired
Ep-77- The Seasons of Us- (Are You Sick and Tired of Being Sick and Tired?)

Mar 18 2026 | 00:10:18

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There’s a moment every year — maybe you’ve felt it — when the air shifts. The light changes. Something in your body knows before your mind does. Summer is ending. Winter is coming. Or maybe, after a long dark stretch, something is finally beginning to bloom again.

We didn’t choose to be creatures of the seasons. We just are.

Long before clocks, before calendars, before every convenience that tricks us into thinking we can outrun time — we were built to move with the earth. To slow down when the world goes quiet. To open up when it warms. 

This is The Seasons of Us.

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There is a quiet wisdom in the natural world that we often overlook — a rhythm so ancient, so constant, that we have forgotten it also beats inside of us. The trees do not apologize for losing their leaves. The Earth does not panic when it freezes. Nature surrenders to its seasons without resistance, without shame, trusting completely that what must go will go, and what must come will come. We are not so different. We, too, have seasons. --- Winter: You Are Not Dead. You Are Resting. The world looks at a winter tree and sees something broken — bare, brittle, stripped of everything that made it beautiful. But the tree knows something the observer does not. Beneath the frozen ground, life is still happening. Roots are deepening. Energy is being conserved. The tree is not dying. It is being prepared. We have winters too. There are seasons in life when the motivation disappears. When the passion that once burned so effortlessly goes quiet. When getting out of bed feels like a monumental task, and the version of yourself that was thriving feels like a distant memory. The world will look at you and see someone who has stopped. Someone who has given up. Someone who is broken. But you are not broken. You are resting. Winter is not a punishment. It is a permission — permission to slow down, to go inward, to stop performing and simply be. The most dangerous thing you can do in winter is force a spring that isn’t ready. To push and grind and demand growth from a soil that needs stillness. Rest is not laziness. Rest is the foundation that every future season will be built upon. Honor your winter. Protect your energy. Trust the silence. The roots you grow in the cold will anchor everything that blooms. --- Spring: You Reap What You Have Sown Then comes the morning when something shifts. A warmth you almost forgot was possible begins to return. Ideas surface. Hope stirs. Energy that was buried beneath the frost begins to push upward, reaching for light. This is your spring — and it is breathtaking. But spring does not appear out of nowhere. It is the harvest of your winter. Every quiet moment of reflection, every boundary you held, every seed of intention you planted in the stillness — spring is where those things break the surface. The growth you see in this season was decided long before anyone could see it. What you chose to nurture in your lowest, coldest moments is exactly what blooms when the warmth returns. This is why your winter matters. This is why the rest was never wasted. Spring is a season of momentum, of becoming, of watching the invisible finally make itself known. New relationships blossom. Creative work flows. Opportunities that seemed impossible in the cold suddenly feel within reach. But do not mistake this season for permanence. Spring is not a destination — it is a doorway. Walk through it with intention, with gratitude, and with full awareness that what you continue to sow now will determine the harvest ahead. Plant boldly. Grow unapologetically. You earned this season. --- Autumn: Let It Fall Of all the seasons, autumn is perhaps the most underestimated — and the most necessary. Watch the trees in autumn. They do not grieve their leaves. They release them with a kind of effortless grace, letting them drift away in brilliant color, making the act of letting go look almost like a celebration. The tree does not hold on to last year’s leaves to make room for next year’s growth. It cannot. Nothing new can grow in a vessel that is full. And neither can you. Autumn is the season of sacred release — the time to look honestly at your life and ask: What am I still carrying that no longer belongs to me? Old stories. Old wounds. Old versions of yourself that you have outgrown but haven’t yet had the courage to let go. Relationships that have run their course. Habits that once served you but now only weigh you down. Beliefs about who you are that were never really true to begin with. These are your dead leaves. And they are beautiful — they were part of your story, part of your becoming. Honor them for what they gave you. And then let them fall. Because here is the truth that autumn teaches us: holding on is not loyalty. It is fear. It is the illusion that who we were is safer than who we are becoming. But you cannot step into a new version of yourself while white-knuckling the old one. You cannot welcome new love while your arms are full of old grief. You cannot grow into your purpose while still shrinking to fit spaces you have already outgrown. Release it. All of it. Let the wind carry it away. --- The Cycle Continues And then, quietly, inevitably — winter comes again. Not as a failure. Not as a sign that you did something wrong. But as the next chapter in a story that has no end, only evolution. Each cycle of seasons leaves you deeper, wiser, and more rooted than the last. Each winter prepares a spring more powerful than the one before. Each autumn clears the way for a growth you haven’t yet imagined. You are not a machine built for constant productivity. You are a living, breathing, seasonal being — and every part of your cycle is sacred. So the next time life goes quiet, remember the winter tree. The next time something new begins to stir, honor the seeds you planted. The next time something no longer fits, have the courage to let it fall. You are not broken. You are not behind. You are not lost. You are simply in a season. And every season, without exception, leads to the next. --- So, my dearest friends, here’s always wishing the best in all your positive ventures. Be compassionate to yourself and others. Trust the process. Trust the cycle. Trust yourself. How about that?

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