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This podcast reveals the pros and cons of too little and too much self-esteem. And how to find the sweet spot.
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Welcome, to episode eleven, the Pros and Cons of Self-esteem.
We can admit sometimes we all have self-esteem situations. The most confident of us have a momentary uneasiness about circumstances.
And the least confident have times that they rise like a fearless Lion.
Nothing is all good, and nothing is all bad.
Today we will Unveil the Duality of Confidence in The Self-Esteem Spectrum.
Host: Welcome to "The Self-Esteem Spectrum," we will explore the fascinating world of self-esteem and its impact on our lives.
I'm your host, Paul, and today we're diving deep into the pros and cons of too little and too much self-esteem and the intriguing Dunning-Kruger effect.
But fear not; we'll uncover practical ways to address and find the perfect balance. So, let's get started!
I want to mention Dependent Personality Disorder can also appear as low-self esteem. But this comes from people doing too much for you as a child, and you have not been able to develop independence, self-reliance, and creativity. And you become uneasy about making any decision on your own.
But for now, we will cover self-esteem.
Host: Picture this: You're meeting two individuals at a party. One is timid, constantly doubting themselves, while the other exudes unwavering confidence. Both scenarios have their own set of advantages and disadvantages. Let's explore the extremes of the self-esteem spectrum.
Host: Too little self-esteem can be like a dark cloud following you around. It can hold you back from pursuing your dreams, hinder your ability to take risks, and even impact your mental and emotional well-being.
You might be in an abusive relationship because you don't believe you deserve better. Or scared to ask your boss to ask for that much-needed raise because you don't think you are worthy.
But hey, there's a silver lining! Low self-esteem can make you more empathetic, humble, and open to personal growth.
The right people will find you a pleasure to be around. But beware of the predators that will attempt to make you feel bad so they can cause misery in your life—at the same time, acting like they are doing you a favor for letting you in their life.
But you will always be the go-to person when they need something done. It's all about finding the right balance.
Host: On the flip side, we have the fascinating phenomenon known as the Dunning-Kruger effect. Ever met someone who thinks they know it all, but in reality, they're clueless? That's the Dunning-Kruger effect in action.
Overconfidence, not based on reality, can lead to poor decision-making, lack of self-awareness, and even hinder personal development. These types of people consider themselves perfect. And if you don't believe it, ask them. The Dunning-Kruger type can be distasteful for anyone to be around.
Both of these attributes can go back to early childhood. Depending on if you believed you were insignificant or given a false sense of grandeur.
Host: Now, let's not leave you hanging! How can we address either extreme and find that sweet spot of healthy self-esteem? It's time to equip you with some practical strategies.
Host: First and foremost, self-reflection is critical. Take a moment to assess your strengths and weaknesses objectively. Looking back on your life, you will be amazed by who you are. Embrace your accomplishments, but also acknowledge areas where you can improve. Remember, self-esteem is about accepting yourself as a work in progress.
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Host: Surround yourself with a supportive network. You can start by trying a new hobby, learning a new skill set, or reading a book, which can let you know you can grow in abilities. Seek mentors or friends or join communities that uplift and inspire you. Their encouragement and constructive feedback can help you gracefully navigate the self-esteem spectrum.
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Practice self-compassion.
Treat yourself with kindness and understanding.
Treat Yourself like you would someone you love when they need your support.
Remember, nobody is perfect, and it's okay to make mistakes.
Embrace them as opportunities for growth and learning.
There are no "mistakes," only opportunities to learn what doesn't work.
Host: Lastly, challenge your comfort zone. Push yourself to try new things, take calculated risks, and celebrate your achievements along the way. Building self-esteem is a journey, and each step forward counts.
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Host: And there you have it, dear listeners! The self-esteem spectrum, the Dunning-Kruger effect, and finding the perfect balance. Remember, self-esteem is like a delicate dance, but with the right mindset and strategies, you can and will master it.
Host: Thank you for joining me on this enlightening episode of "The Self-Esteem Spectrum." I hope you've gained valuable insights and tools to navigate the world of self-esteem. Until next time, keep believing in yourself and embracing the beautiful complexity that is you!
Please join me next time to discover what is most important to you. And how to achieve it.
And as always:
Please remember to Love Yourself. You are Not Alone. You are relevant and worthy.
How About that?
